Men have it hard and women have it hard. What is actually making it hard for all of us is the patriarchy.
The patriarchy is responsible for the high levels of suicides in men and the low levels of pay for women relative to men.
It is responsible for boys shunning pink and for girls wearing skirts.
Feminism is a movement that challenges the patriarchy. It is not simply about treating men and women equally. It is about challenging the power structures that render them unequal in the first place.